tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57960517011555393412024-03-14T05:56:47.644-04:00Pray For LilyAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.comBlogger67125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-220372329544936712018-03-10T11:54:00.002-05:002018-03-10T11:54:41.246-05:00Hip SagaMonday before last, Lily started to fuss and cry while having her dinner. This is not usual and we were immediately worried about her hips which we've been watching. We decided to take her to the ER here in town where they said that her hips didn't FEEL dislocated but they did an x-ray and the hips didn't look right to the doctors. They called Children's Hospital in DC, (we go to Georgetown, so I'm not sure why they decided Children's), and they said we'd need to be transported by ambulance there to see what was going on. Lily slept through it all and we got to Children's at 4 am. By 6 am we were being discharged. The (very new) orthopedic resident I talked to told me that the ER only told him that there was a 4 year old with dislocated hips, which is what prompted the ambulance. They never told him that she has Cerebral Palsy. Oh, well. I was to follow up with our orthopedic doctor, (who has been doing this for I'm sure longer than I've been alive), to see what was next.<br />
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We did that this week on Tuesday. He had another x-ray done because the one from the ER wasn't in the system and I didn't think to take the extra CD that the ER sent to Children's. He confirmed that Lily's hips aren't dislocated -yet- but they're still on the way...and not where they should be at any rate. He's going to talk with the orthopedic doctor who does the surgeries now and get back with us next week. In the meantime we're just supposed to keep her comfortable with Ibuprofen and Valium. That's fine for the short term, but I'd rather get the surgery done and out of the way before the new baby comes and life is even more chaotic than it is now. It would be ideal to have it during Spring Break, the week after Easter, so that Danny didn't have to take any more time off.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Usually the femur bends into the hip socket like this. Crawling. standing, and walking make it do this.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Because Lily can't crawl, stand, or walk, and because her muscles are tight and pulling on her femur, her hips look like this, facing the wrong way and bending outward, away from the hip socket. This is what caused the panic and confusion in the ER from doctors not used to dealing with Cerebral Palsy.</td></tr>
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Lily is sometimes okay while sitting in her wheelchair, but we can tell it's not comfortable for her. She keeps her right leg up- you try sitting with your leg lifted for longer than 10 minutes. She just can't relax it enough. We've been propping her up on the couch to have her food and that seems to be alright for her, as long as she's not putting too much pressure on her right side. It works for now, but again, we've got to be able to get back to real life and ease Lily's pain soon.<br />
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On Wednesday we went back to DC for her nutrition and neurology appointments. We decided to decrease her calories a little bit because she's gaining weight pretty quickly since being on the Keto diet. This also means that the Keto ratio is increasing, getting closer to ketosis and hopefully seeing a decrease in seizures.<br />
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Lily has to have blood work done every few months to check the level of one of her seizure medicines. At the blood draw last week she was dramatically lower in the level than she had been previously. Because of weight gain and the Keto diet helping her to metabolize her food and medicine quicker, it was determined that we should increase the level of that medicine and then decrease and eliminate one of the others that never seemed to really do anything. After we drop that one, we'll try another one. That'll be medicine #6 that we will have tried. (She's currently on 3, plus the Valium, which is technically a lower dose of her emergency seizure medicine but also acts to help her muscles reduce tension). We're on day 3 of the increase, (we're adding 1 ml in the morning for a week and then another 1 ml in the evening), and if I dare say it, I think it's helping. She's even moving around a bit more today than she has been. So that's good!<br />
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We're heading back to DC on Monday for an EEG to see what's going on when Lily is NOT having seizures, but I do hope that she has one or two while we're there to see what the seizures are like now compared to her last one over 2 years ago, since they seem to be evolving a little.<br />
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I'm getting pretty good at driving in DC because of all these appointments. We've got Botox scheduled for the 23rd and we'll have to get to DC somehow (miraculously) in morning rush hour traffic before 8 am. That one's going to be tough. Almost considering getting a hotel closer so that we don't have to leave at 5:30, or earlier. The neurologist thinks that the Botox will help with Lily's hips, since part of the problem is that the spasticity of her muscles is what is contributing to her femurs being pulled out.<br />
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Now you're pretty well caught up. One big help to all this hip mess is that Lily doesn't mind her car seat, or at least she seems better in it than in her other chairs. At least we've got that going for us!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-81569957749322436102018-01-23T10:09:00.001-05:002018-01-23T10:09:19.442-05:00Winter UpdateThe past few months have been ones of change. We packed up all our stuff again and now reside in Southern Maryland. Moving is hard. Moving with kids is harder. Moving out of state with a disabled child should get you a medal. The long story short is that we've got doctors set up, they seem pretty good, and now I just need to remember to make follow up appointments.<br />
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Before we moved, we talked with the neurologists about starting the <a href="https://www.epilepsy.com/learn/treating-seizures-and-epilepsy/dietary-therapies/ketogenic-diet" target="_blank">Ketogenic Diet</a> with Lily, but it got put on hold because of the move. The new neurologist and dietician here thought it would be a great idea since Lily has maxed out on all of the seizure meds she's on. Essentially, there really aren't any choices left. They realized that the typical start to a Keto Diet, which includes a several day hospital stay for monitoring, would be really hard on us, so we were allowed to do a "slow start," which means it's going to take a lot longer to get to ketosis, but we can just take it easy and do everything from home. Because Lily has a g-tube, there's not much thinking involved for me- there's special Keto formula that we're mixing with her regular formula, slowly getting more Keto and less regular formula. It's been going ok, and I think there's been a slight reduction in seizures. She was having 8-10 a day and now it's usually 4-7. I have to check her blood glucose and ketone levels daily now. We had a setback about a two months ago when Lily seemed very lethargic all of a sudden. Since we had just increased the ratio and hypoglycemia is a big concern, I took her to the pediatrician, who determined that everything seemed fine after blood tests and examining her. I decreased the ratio again and decided to give her a little bit of diazepam, which we had from two years ago when she was crying in pain/tiredness, but that we hadn't really had to give since then. The next day she seemed a little better, and after continuing that regimen, was mostly back to herself by day three. I think that her muscles have been causing her pain again and so I've kept up the diazepam with the neurologists blessing, but it's not really a good long term fix. Next up? Botox.<br />
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The effect of the <a href="https://research.cerebralpalsy.org.au/what-is-cerebral-palsy/types-of-cerebral-palsy/spastic-cerebral-palsy/" target="_blank">spasticity</a> of Lily's muscles seems to be increasing as she ages. They say that Cerebral Palsy doesn't progress, the brain has been injured and it's not going to get worse, but the effects will increase and become more noticeable. We're seeing that happen. <a href="https://www.news-medical.net/news/2004/09/12/4715.aspx" target="_blank">Botox</a> is something that can hopefully help her muscles to relax, which would in turn help her to relax. There is nothing easy about having to decide what to subject your child to. Everything has a side effect. Nothing is a cure-all. Her doctor thinks that it is a good idea, so we're just waiting to be told when we can come in, as she has to be put under for the procedure to be done. She'll have it done in both arms and legs.<br />
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EEG: The neurologist actually got to see Lily have a seizure at one visit, a minor miracle as she tends to have them right before or after seeing a doctor. Without quite saying it, she implied that they were much worse than she thought they were, from what I described. She has requested another EEG to see what's going on, as she suspects Lily may be having more seizures that we're not even realizing she's having. Sometimes she just seems out of it, and that could be a seizure.<br />
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Orthopedics: Met with the doctor in August and he wasn't concerned about Lily's hip (though it's still on the way out). Said they wouldn't even think about doing surgery until she was older, (I think at least 5 or 6?), unless it became dislocated before then. That doctor is retiring and so I've got to set up with his replacement.<br />
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Overall, since July, Lily has been much more quiet and still. She used to move around a lot more, "talk" often, and do well with her piano and pop-up toys. It's strange to see the change and we're not sure why it's happening- if it's just from her muscles or the brain injury presenting itself in a different way or if there are more seizures that are happening. We were told that because her cerebrum was most affected but that her brainstem was fine, we'd see a change as she got older and switched from using her brainstem to needing to use her cerebrum. Aside from that, the doctors can't really tell us anything, because she "looks" fine and all her tests come back fine. It does appear from a couple posts in support groups that this is just kind of what happens. We miss our talkative and super smily Lily, though.<br />
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And if you made it this far, and you don't know already: Lily is going to be a big sister! We're expecting Baby #6 in August. Please keep us in your prayers. I really need to have a super boring pregnancy and no complications for delivery. Not sure yet whether I'm going to try for a VBAC or schedule a c-section. The practice that was recommended to me has both midwives and OBs, so I'm going to make sure I see all of them and get all opinions. I'll be in the hospital either way and will be having a consultation with the maternal-fetal doctors because of Lily and because I'm of "advanced maternal age" now.<br />
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How are we going to do this? I have no idea. Lily is getting taller and heavier everyday, especially because of the Keto diet. I'm not sure I'll even be able to get her wheelchair in and out of the van once my belly gets bigger- it's hard enough as it is. We'll all fit in our Odyssey, but we sure could use a 12 passenger van that would be more wheelchair and big family friendly. Unfortunately, our budget for that is $0.<br />
I know that the first six weeks after delivery will be the hardest. I'm going to need full time help for at least four or five of those weeks- I'm not going to be able to pick up Lily at all. It is good to know that the other children will be able to help out with holding the new baby, though. We've never had older kids when we've had a new baby! When Lily was born we had a 5, 4, 2, and 1 year old. Now we'll have a 10, 9, 7, and 6 year old to help. I guess I've got until August to train them to do all I do!<br />
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Thank you for your continued prayers!<br />
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Several months ago Lily was seen by the orthopedic doctor for a follow up regarding her left hip, which is slowly making its way further from her hip socket. The doctor was very concerned and wanted us to see the orthopedic surgeon in February for a consultation. She was pretty sure that Lily was going to need surgery… a surgery that involves cutting the top of the femur and reattaching it with bolts and things, to get it to fit into the hip socket. This has weighed heavy on my heart since then and I could barely even think about it without starting to panic. </div>
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Since Lily turned 3, she no longer qualifies for the early intervention services she was receiving. We got a certificate congratulating her (on turning 3?) and a book about when to call the doctor if we think that she’s delayed in not doing things three year olds do. The book went in the trash. I get that they send those to everyone, but when her paperwork says “presents at 3-5 months” over and over again AND they know us…we probably could’ve done without another reminder. At any rate, that means that she’s now a public school student. She’s not going to school in any sort of way, but that’s how she’s now receiving therapy services. There was debate at first about whether we’d have to go to the school for the therapy, but because of her seizures and ridiculous logistics, they’re coming to us. Lily was getting an hour each of physical and occupational therapy every week with the early intervention, but now that she’s been transferred to the school system, she’s going to be getting 20 MINUTES of physical therapy a week and 30 MINUTES of music therapy twice a month. I just don’t even totally know what to do with that. (But she really likes the music therapy, as do the other kids.) </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-77882437769174269282016-11-26T21:53:00.000-05:002016-11-27T10:10:29.102-05:00Lily is 3!Lily turned 3 on Wednesday! We are so thankful she is here with us. We are also so very thankful for your prayers and support for her and us these past three years. Really and truly.<br />
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If you could, would you offer a prayer for the repose of the soul of Dr. George, the OB who delivered Lily? He died in April from cancer. We will forever be grateful for his quick work. Please also pray for his widow, Samantha, who was my midwife (and thankfully there to help Danny, too), and his daughter, that they may be comforted. Thank you all!<br />
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She's doing a bit better with being on her tummy and seems to like looking at herself in the mirror while laying on the Boppy. She finds it uncomfortable to be directly on the floor because of her g-tube, but the padding of the Boppy or her wedge pillow make it bearable for a few minutes at a time. Still working on getting her to put weight on her arms to prop or push herself up. She has to work pretty hard to get and keep her head up. And since we're speaking of it, her head has grown a centimeter! We take what we can get!<br />
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We have been adjusting her seizure medications like it's going out of style. We dropped one while adding another, and then started to add another, but stopped, while adding one that we only use if she's had too many seizures in a day and don't seem to be slowing down, and then adding back the one we stopped while decreasing another. Got all that? And it's not really working. There is one medication that seems to be doing the most good work, the one we started in May. But...she's still having seizures. Sleep seems to be a pretty big factor in it all and so we've adjusted our lives a little bit to make sure she gets the naps she needs.<br />
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Speaking of sleep, in May, when we started the new medicine and dropped the old (which we've since started again, in a very low low dose), Lily's sleep pattern changed dramatically. She used to fall asleep with us rocking in a chair, but all of a sudden she didn't want to. She wasn't tolerating her last feeding (usually around 8 or 9) and would fuss and cry and then most of it would come back up. If you're friends with us on Facebook you might remember that we were having a terrible time trying to figure out what was wrong with Lily. She would wake up and then a half hour later be screaming screaming screaming...which wasn't something that she had done in a long time. We had no idea what was wrong and neither did any of the doctors. And then one day, I just decided that as soon as she started to fuss, (and hopefully before the real screaming started), I'd bring her back to bed, even if she'd only been up 10 minutes. Holy moly. Little lady was just so tired. So very, very tired. After a week of doing this, and her getting more sleep, she was so much more content...and seemed to trust us again. It seems like such a fail to have not seen that this was the problem, but she didn't <i>always</i> scream when she was tired. Sometimes she was just quiet and tired. But the other times....whew. Since we've figured it out, life has been so much better for all of us. She's started to go to bed earlier, around 8, when it used to be 11 or later. She's sleeping great at night and is pretty good about falling asleep by herself, though I enjoy cuddling and having a snuggle for a few minutes with her.<br />
Because of her going to sleep earlier, she's missing her last feeding. There have been a few times when I've tried to give it to her, but she clearly doesn't want it and so we're just going with what she says. She hasn't lost any weight, but she hasn't gained, either. We're going to be starting to transition to a real food blended diet and I am hoping that that will enable us to get her the calories and goodness that she needs.<br />
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2015 ended with sickness for everyone in our house. Lily started throwing up all of her tube feedings two weeks before Christmas. She was in good spirits otherwise and was sleeping great, so we didn't know what was going on. UVA fit us in for an appointment the day I told them we were just going to go to the ER and they did a barium study. Everything emptied fine from her stomach and the doctor didn't see any blockage (it's so interesting to be able to watch it happen!). "You're not staying for surgery, but I don't know what's wrong," he said. Her GI doctor couldn't figure out what it could be, either, but upped her stool softener (which has helped). Of course, the next day she didn't throw up anymore and started to get the cold that the 4 year old had started a few days prior. We ended up with 3 ear infections, 3 cases of pink eye, and one of strep throat. We're all finally better, but it's been hard.<br />
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At our last appointment with GI and nutrition, we talked about increasing Lily's feeds and we were doing well until she got sick. She went from 105mls to 50mls, mixed with 50mls Pedialyte. So then we had to work our way back up from there. She's now made it to 115mls and is doing well with it. We'll probably try 120mls next week. We also got a feeding pump. She had been fed from gravity bags that hang on an IV pole, and that was fine for when we were home or going to someone's house and we could bring the pole with us, but not for just being out and about. The bag would either have to get taped up on a tall piece of playground equipment (we are a sight wherever we go) or we would have to hold an open 60ml syringe, hoping that she wouldn't knock it over or that it wouldn't just come out on it's own. It also meant that we had to stop what we were doing and sit for an hour, which is totally doable with four other antsy kids. Now that we've got the pump, we can just attach it to her wheelchair, hang the bag a little higher on a hinge on the chair and keep on going!<br />
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Seizures started up again at the beginning of December. First just one every couple of days, and then one just about everyday, and then multiple seizures everyday. Seizures are an excellent way to go from good day to bummed out day. We just added a new medicine this past week, since we've maxed out on the other one she's on. It will take 4 weeks to get to the dose the doctor wants her on, so it will probably be a little bit before we (hopefully) see improvement.<br />
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Lily got new <a href="http://www.orthomerica.com/product/1609137-supra-malleolar-orthosis-smo" target="_blank">SMO</a>s, which help keep her ankles stable when she's in the stander. Of course, the next week we saw the Orthopedic doctor, who recommended that she get <a href="http://www.orthomerica.com/product/1609137-supra-malleolar-orthosis-smo" target="_blank">AFO</a>s, because her range of being able to flex her foot is already getting smaller. We'll have to wait 6 months before the insurance will pay for new ones, so in the meantime, we're just trying to keep her flexible. Lily had a x-ray of her hips made and the doctor said that her left hip is already starting to come out a little bit. Apparently as you learn how to crawl and then walk, the top of your femur goes from straight to an angle, to fit into your hips (and keep your bone there). When you don't crawl or walk, your bone doesn't make that change and is more likely to come out of the socket (and be very painful). There isn't anything we can do to stop this and the solution is surgery, which involves breaking the bone at the top and using plates and screws to put it how it should be. I had to sit down. It won't be soon, but they're going to keep a close eye on her hips and we know that the surgery will be sometime in the future.<br />
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In the past few weeks Lily has seemed to be more alert and interactive, despite all of the seizures. She has tried to reach for toys (she holds her arm out straight and does her best!) and seems more interested in toys than she has previously. Her neck seems to be getting stronger, too. She can do little crunches and her head doesn't fall back like it had been when you pick her up from lying down. So that's good!<br />
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We just received a <a href="https://shop.aph.org/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=11051&krypto=w%2FE%2FZ6s4BbOTWTAk7uwYkwPqZ0gDTT8mPqLLyhhVaTsq5cuSkOiPy5BjiL90i%2FEyDtBzvF%2FUJVgS%0D%0A5fzQRbG3dg%3D%3D&ddkey=http:ProductDisplay" target="_blank">light box</a> and blackout board (basically a science fair board covered with black felt so that the child can concentrate on one thing at a time on a plain background, but for special needs, so it costs $$$$). We didn't receive all of the special things to use on the light box yet, though, so we haven't really used it yet, but I'm looking forward to this week when the vision therapist comes and shows us what to do. Lily likely has <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cortical_visual_impairment" target="_blank">cortical visual impairment</a> and these tools will aid her.<br />
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We're still waiting for her new high-low chair to arrive, but now that we're in the third month (of hopefully just three) of waiting, maybe one day soon we'll get the call that it's on it's way. We're also waiting on a new chest harness for Lily's wheelchair that won't cut into her neck, so...any day now would be great! It's so very frustrating that the special needs world takes forever and costs so much. <br />
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Lily still loves people the most and it's like Disney World to her at Mass when everyone is coming back to their pews from Communion, passing her. She gets so excited and it's really cute...and loud. She can squeal like the little girl she is when she gets excited!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-51090523281317635512015-12-26T12:40:00.001-05:002015-12-26T12:40:38.738-05:00Merry Christmas!Merry Christmas from our family to yours! Thank you so much for praying for us and Lily!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-43739004202043936382015-11-30T17:35:00.001-05:002015-11-30T17:35:51.090-05:00St. Jude Novena UpdateThank you for praying the St. Jude Novena with us. After trying for a month to get all the records from Florida sent to Virginia, and after being told that after they got the paperwork it would be another month before we got an appointment, we got a call on Day 2 of the Novena that the neurologist got everything in and had an appointment that day, if we’d like it. Well, of course we would!<br />
That appointment set up referrals for most of the other specialist doctors that Lily needs to see and we’ve had appointments with some already. And they’re good doctors. Miracles! Her new pediatrician is also on the ball, so I’m really happy with how things have been going. Thank you, St. Jude.<br />
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At the neurologist appointment, we upped her seizure medicine dose since we were still seeing seizures. Two weeks later, we were still seeing seizures, so we’ve upped it again. It’s been a few weeks and she’s not had one (we don’t think…there have been a few times that looked suspicious). This is such a relief. I doubt that she’s at a dose that will keep them at bay as she grows, but it works for right now, and she’s still on a fairly low dose. Life is so much easier when your child isn’t having seizures. She had another short EEG just after upping the dose, so we’ll see what that says at her next appointment in January.<br />
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Lily’s sleep got a little better and is now worse again. I’m not sure what prompts it to go either way. We’re very, very tired. The sleep situation has made Lily’s PT appointments fairly non-existent, and because the PT we had could only come on Monday and had very little flexibility with the time, we have decided to try a different PT who has more wiggle room with days and times. I hope that it works out well and that Lily makes the switch again to days being days and nights being nights. It's just harder than hard to only be getting a few hours of non-consecutive sleep each night. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-27069384174224094732015-11-23T09:54:00.000-05:002015-11-23T09:54:27.211-05:00Two Years OldThis year has been full of challenges, triumphs, and joys. We have been bone crushingly tired (and remain mostly so). We have spent days in the hospital. We have cried, but not as much as the first year. We have laughed. We are in awe of just how beautiful Lily is, how perfect. <br />I love<br />…how she smiles sweetly as she drifts off to sleep<br />…how she loves to snuggle with Daddy<br />…how she only pops her jaw when she’s happy or content, or to get a reaction from people<br />…her little coos, that are sometimes very loud!<br />…finding out what toys she likes<br />…her excitement when anyone in the family comes by<br />…that she loves kisses<br /><br />There is a lot that you have to come to terms with as a special needs parent. Will she? Won’t she? Does it matter? I admit it is still difficult to see children about the same age as Lily doing what she would have been doing. It’s hard to see little babies doing things that she can’t. There are definitely some challenges to having a two year old that is more like a four month old. And there are joys.<br />
I think that’s what I wish that the doctors had told us the day they gave us the Officially Official news. Yes, tell us that it looks bad. Tell us what it might mean. But then don’t leave it there and ask if we’d like to go into the other room to cry. Tell us that we will love her fiercely and that we will find the joy, the hope. That the little things she does will be cause for great excitement (even though that will sound bad at the time). That we’re going to meet people along this path who will comfort us, encourage us, and help us. That we’re not alone. No, we didn’t ask for this, didn’t plan for this. That it’s going to be hard- so so hard… and that it will be beautiful, so very beautiful.<br /><br />Happy 2nd Birthday, Lily Bean. We love you more and more each day. <br /><br />St. Lillian, St. Faustina, Our Lady of Loreto, and her Holy Angel, pray for her!<br />
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wheelchairs about a year ago. It's actually just been in the last few
months that I've really embraced it (seeing how happy Lily is in it sure
helps.) So when the equipment guy showed up today to pick out a
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she can, and I'm thankful that I've come to accept where we are in this
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Starting tomorrow, we will be praying the St. Jude Novena with intentions for Lily to sleep at night and for all of the medical things that need to be sorted out to be so (and for her to have good, caring doctors). Saint Jude is the patron of Hopeless Causes and Desperate Situations, and these things seem more desperate and hopeless each day for us.<br />
We would find great comfort if you would join your prayers with ours. Thank you so very much!<br />
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Here is the link for the Novena: http://www.praymorenovenas.com/st-jude-novena/<br />
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You can sign up for it to go directly to your email.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-38652856952918175282015-10-11T16:40:00.001-04:002015-10-11T16:40:32.787-04:0023 Months (almost)Getting doctors switched has been the most ridiculous and frustrating experience. I need an assistant just to get this done. I wish I had known it was going to be impossible! Suffice it to say: we’ve not yet met our new neurologist and though getting a pediatrician was easy, I’ve already had to fire him. Seeing a new one on Monday, who hopefully knows his stuff, because I know mine.<br /><br />Lily is still having seizures. I don’t know what else to say besides it’s hard to watch and suffer through with her. Hopefully we’ll be able to get in to see the new doctor within a month or so and try to get things figured out. <br /><br />She’s doing really well with the g-tube and now has a Mic-Key button since her first tube’s balloon deflated and the tube came out. One more experience (and two trips to two different ERs) under our belts. The balloon keeping the tube in her stomach will deflate every few months and she’ll need a replacement tube then, so this is just one more thing to deal with. <br /><br />We love our new PT and OT (occupational therapist.) Lily sees each of them once a week now. They are pleased with how she’s doing. She’s getting closer to sitting by herself, though she still arches back and if she has a seizure she goes rigid, so it makes it that much more difficult. We’re working on finding toys that she likes- lights, music, and vibration are winners.<br />
<br />Up next in the equipment department is a new chair for feeding (and just being) in. The little highchair she has now still isn’t cutting it and she needs more support. We’re waiting on the Equipment Man to call our OT back to set up an appointment. <br />Lily is doing really well in her stander and really seems to enjoy it, which makes us happy, since it’s good for her to bear weight and straighten her spine. I just wish it had handlebars so we could push her around easier- she loves moving around in it.<br />
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<br />Now that Lily is over 31 inches tall, she’s officially outgrown her infant car seat, and we’ve been bracing ourselves for the switch to a regular car seat and using her wheelchair, since she still takes so many naps in the car and it’s just so easy to take out the infant seat and bring her with us. It had to be done though, and I’m pleased to say that our outing Saturday went really well. We did end up needing a new car seat since the one we had wasn’t supportive enough (a trend you may notice), but the new one is really great. She did really well out and about in her wheelchair and took a few naps in it, which gives us such peace about it being just right for her, and knowing she’s comfortable in it. Today was the first day that she used it at Mass and she did great. She stayed in it the whole time and took a little nap. We are wondering who thought we just parked a stroller in the handicap pew spot. The base is a <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Baby-Jogger-Select-Stroller-Silver/dp/B00G3XRDSA/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1444595094&sr=8-5&keywords=baby+jogger" target="_blank">Baby Jogger</a>, (which is awesome! And after using a two seater stroller for the past 6 years feels really tiny), so if you didn’t see all the extra stuff she has for the chair part, you’d probably think it was a regular stroller. <br /><br />The most terrible news is that she has pretty much completely switched her days and nights. She is frequently awake from midnight or 1 to 8-8:30 am, which is leaving us absolutely and completely exhausted. I don’t know what the official requirements are for sleep deprivation to qualify as torture, but I think we’re at least close to it. Really, we’ve reached our ends. If we were able to wake her up during the day, we would. When Lily wants to sleep she will either just fall asleep or cry (and throw a huge tantrum) until she is put to sleep. If she is woken up from this sleep, the process just repeats itself. She will not go to sleep if she is not tired. We’ve been taking shifts during the night but we’re really worn out.<br />
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<br /><br />So that’s about it for now. We’re still just taking each day one at a time.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-68014793048059330002015-07-28T09:10:00.001-04:002015-07-28T09:10:33.189-04:0020 MonthsWhat’s been going on in the last month and a half:<br />
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Lily had an almost 72 hour EEG: Monitored by a different neurologist, he took her off one seizure medication that she had been on since the NICU and that we had been increasing pretty steadily until we hit the max a few months ago. He put her on a different medication (that she takes less of) and it has changed her life (and ours) for the better. After a week on it, (and off the other medicine), the seizures that we were worried about had stopped. She’s been much happier and more relaxed. Before she would fuss and cry about having her bottom on the ground, which makes it difficult to learn to sit up, but now she’s much happier on the ground and can just move better in general. <br />
We have also weaned her off the other seizure medicine she was taking (so now she’s only on one). However, we’re starting to see things that could be seizures (rapid eye blinking, other strange movements/sounds), so we’ll likely have another EEG in the future and will be talking with the neurologist about what to do with her medicine.<br />
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A week after the EEG, Lily got her g-tube. The surgery was uneventful, thank goodness, and everything went really well. We were home the next day and within a week, Lily had gained a pound. There’s been a little bit of a learning curve with the tube, but it’s been so so good for Lily. The other kids like to help with giving her medicine (so much easier now!) and getting her set up to eat. We currently use gravity bags (they look like IV bags) that we put the formula in and then it drips down the tube and into her belly. She can eat (and get medicine) while she sleeps, which is pretty handy, and she is still nursing and taking purees by mouth. We haven’t weighed her in a while, but she’s definitely getting bigger, which is so good. The other day I was looking at her and thinking that her head looked bigger. I had thought that a few months ago and when I measured, it was the same, so I tried to put it out of my mind. I kept thinking it, though, and so steeled myself and measured it anyway- and her head has grown a centimeter! I had Danny measure it, too, just to make sure I wasn’t making it up, and I wasn’t. We’re thrilled at this! Imagine that- getting enough to eat helps you grow!<br />
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We received her bath chair, wheelchair (it’s great), and stander (she’s not a total fan), a day before the g-tube, so we’ve had a lot going on all at once for her. We’re happy that she has what she needs now.<br />
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We also moved from Florida to Virginia at the beginning of July, so Lily be getting new doctors and therapists. The week before we left, all the kids got colds, and of course Lily got it worse. Double ear infections and so much mucus we ended up in the ER two days before we left. Nothing like starting a week long road trip with antibiotics, steroids, and an inhaler!<br />
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One awesome thing that’s happened in the last week that we’ve been
waiting a long time for- Lily has started to laugh! (And we’re about 99%
sure it’s not seizures…usually) It’s really the best thing ever, even
at 1:30 in the morning. When she laughs, everyone stops what they’re
doing and just enjoys it, laughing with her. We don’t take anything for
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And...Lily's sleep went from bad to amazing right after the g-tube and then back to bad. She's usually up until 1-2am and then may sleep until 6, or may be up again before that. Then she wants to sleep all morning and still takes a few shorter naps during the afternoon/evening. We're not entirely sure what to do, as she is supposed to have 5 feedings, 4 hours apart during the day. If we start at 7, that's 7-11-3-7-11...which means we're up until after midnight every night. We've been trying to get up at 6 to pull it all back an hour, but that's an almost heroic feat if we've been up until 2. She's just not able to take in enough for us to only do 4 feedings (and we can tell she's hungry for the last one), so we're just stuck. And so very tired, still.<br />
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So continued prayers for Lily's sleep at night would be very much appreciated! Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-2936387231826193902015-04-26T13:53:00.000-04:002015-04-27T22:56:44.921-04:0017 monthsWe had picked out a wheelchair for Lily- all I had to do was pick a color- but I just couldn't shake the feeling that it wasn't the right decision. After talking with our PT, we decided to go with a different company. Not only will we be getting a wheelchair that I think will better suit her and our family, but she will be getting a stander and a bath chair. It currently takes two people to hold Lily sitting up and give her a bath in the baby bath (we found she prefers to sit than lay back), and it's pretty tricky, especially as she gets taller. The bath chair will keep her head steady and we can buckle her in, keeping her safe. Hopefully everything will be delivered within 8 weeks.<br />
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Lily is 17 months old now. Life is considerably different for her than
for other 17 month olds. I will say- that can be very, very difficult.
It can get annoying to not be able to just plop her down and have her
sit; she always has to have a comfy place to be able to lay down. She's
out grown (in length, at least) her infant car seat, but since we don't have a wheelchair for her yet, and she isn't able to stay upright in the stroller (and hates to be worn), we don't have much of a choice but to keep her in it. You know how you can take your child out of the car seat and sit them in the shopping cart? Lily can't do that, and until we're able to get yet <i>another</i> special seat for her that fits in carts and on other chairs, we've got no other choice. Even when we do get the wheelchair, it will be easier to have her in the cart than to have to push the wheelchair and pull a shopping cart.<br />
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One big thing that's good: Lily hasn't had a tonic seizure since March 16th. We had upped her dose of medicine twice to achieve this, which leads to a bit of bad news- one of the side effects of the medicine is loss of appetite. For someone who doesn't eat a lot to begin with, this loss of appetite is devastating. Down a pound, after having been slowly gaining, we're making the decision to have a <a href="http://kidshealth.org/parent/system/surgery/g_tube.html" target="_blank">g-tube</a> placed. Food is such a stress right now and we just can't get enough calories in her. Sometimes she'll just sit there with food in her mouth, refusing to swallow. This is especially frustrating while trying to give her the medicine that she has to take with food- the same medicine that makes her not want to eat. One step forward, two steps back. <br />
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Lily is still having spasm seizures and will be having a 48 hour EEG in a few weeks to try and determine what we can do about those, and to see if she's having any other kinds. It will be good to get other opinions and treatment options.<br />
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In the mean time, we're just keepin' on, keepin' on. One morning while Lily was getting her medicine, our 7 year old (whom she adores) was talking with her and hugging her and said to me, "Mommy, Lily's perfect." I agreed.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-79590758290201582992015-03-20T14:04:00.001-04:002015-03-20T14:04:54.936-04:00Hearing AidsLily received her hearing aids last week- finally! The part that goes behind her ear is light pink and the part that fits in is purple, though she'll be going every few months to get new ear molds as she grows and we'll be able to change the color of those. She tolerates them very well and seems to be happy with them. We didn't have any magical moment the first time she had them in, but we weren't really expecting it since we knew that she could hear already. We're very happy that she has them- at least she won't miss anything now!<br />
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If you could pray for her sleep, we'd be appreciative. I've grown accustomed to her short 30-45 minute naps, but the hours spent up during the night and early morning are very very wearisome. Moms need more than 4 or 5 hours of interrupted sleep....at least this one does. Many thanks.<br />
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Lily finally has a wheelchair. It's a loaner while we wait to figure out what kind of chair we are going to be able to get for her. The original chair we picked is a brand new model that no one around here has seen yet, and the early intervention people are hesitant to pay for something so pricey that she's never sat in. We're hoping that we'll be able to try it out before having to commit to it, or be able to try out something else that might work better. The main problem is that because Lily is so small, our options are limited. For now we've got this one that works alright but I'd be bummed if we had to have it for the next 5 years. At least Lily is better supported in it than she was in her other little high chair. If we can get a better chest harness and head rest, she'll be even more comfortable.<br />
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Lily is still having <a href="http://www.epilepsy.com/learn/types-seizures/tonic-seizures" target="_blank">tonic</a> and spasm seizures (and may also be having <a href="http://www.epilepsy.com/learn/types-seizures/absence-seizures" target="_blank">absence</a> and <a href="http://www.epilepsy.com/learn/types-seizures/atonic-seizures" target="_blank">atonic</a> seizures, but it's hard to tell), despite being on a new medication. Our next step is going to be a longer EEG, either 24, 48, or 72 hours, and meeting with an Epileptologist, who specializes in Epilepsy, because we can't seem to get the seizures under control.<br />
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Despite nursing seemingly constantly and doing a fairly good job at eating purees, Lily has managed to lose weight, though she is getting taller. Her head hasn't gotten any bigger. We had the opportunity to see her recent MRI when we were at a neurologist appointment. I mentioned that after her CT scan last year the neurosurgeon said he was surprised she could see (and was again impressed with her after the last CT scan and MRI when we saw him at the end of December). The neurologist said that he was surprised, too, because she basically doesn't have the back part (<a href="http://askabiologist.asu.edu/what-your-brain-doing" target="_blank">Occipital</a>) of her brain anymore, where most of the vision parts are. The other parts have been affected, too, though he said the front is better off and her Cerebellum seems to have been untouched. Another visit to the ophthalmologist confirms that she can see and that her astigmatism seems to have improved.<br />
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Lily still hates physical therapy with a passion, and that makes it difficult to do on our own, too. She's rolled over five or six more times and it's actually pretty impressive how she can get around a little by turning from her back to her side to her back again. Since we haven't had many milestones to celebrate, we rejoice in the inch and millimeterstones that Lily has accomplished. Each time she smiles, every laugh we get (which are few), each time she's covered in food from bringing her hands to her mouth and face, we get excited about it all. Whether or not she meant to push the truck on her tray, everyone cheers. <br />
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Two blog posts by other moms to help you out (and us, too). <br />
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<a href="http://themighty.com/2015/01/to-the-mom-or-dad-who-told-their-child-not-to-stare-at-mine/" target="_blank">To the mom or dad who told their child not to stare at mine</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-72092339118331886812015-01-01T08:50:00.000-05:002015-01-01T08:50:42.150-05:00Happy New Year!In 2014, Lily had 84 appointments, including physical therapy. I have a feeling that number will be easily beat in 2015.<br />
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The big news is from our last appointment of 2014. We met with the neurosurgeon yesterday to discuss her recent CT Scan and MRI and he said that he's not recommending surgery. There is enough room between her brain and her skull and excess fluid isn't a concern, so the surgery to reshape her skull would just be cosmetic. The fact of the matter is that if her brain isn't growing, her skull isn't going to grow, either. If her brain was pressing against her skull, we would have the surgery, but it's not...so, mixed feelings on the situation.<br />
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Lily was measured for a wheelchair this week (it looks more like a stroller than a wheelchair) and we're excited that she'll have the support that she needs. No idea how long it's going to take to get, though.<br />
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We're starting off this year with an EEG tomorrow, hoping to catch some of the seizures she's having. Next week we're heading back to Miami for the audiologist and to hopefully get fitted for hearing aids. Then, since Lily's not going to have surgery, we'll have a week off of appointments, besides PT!<br />
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We wish you all a happy and blessed New Year!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-6075126487495417052014-12-25T12:26:00.000-05:002014-12-25T12:26:09.654-05:00Merry Christmas!We had the blessing of being able to visit the Shrine of Our Lady of La Leche in St. Augustine, Florida this past weekend. Our Lady of La Leche has special meaning to us because a little over a year ago, the NICU nurses thought Lily wouldn't be able
to use a bottle, let alone breastfeed. After a novena to Our Lady of La
Leche, she did! That enabled her to come home, where she's been
exclusively breastfed. It was such a joy to be able to nurse Lily at the
Shrine of Our Lady of La Leche, and thank her for her intercession. Thank you for praying that novena with us last year.<br />
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<span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-69540211369080908752014-12-01T09:09:00.000-05:002014-12-01T09:09:06.119-05:00Coming up next....Lest you think that things might be slowing down around here now that Lily is one….<br />
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Lily’s recent CT Scan shows that one of the sutures (the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frontal_suture" target="_blank">metopic suture</a>) on her skull has closed, resulting in the sort of pinched look of her head, forehead and up. We’ll be getting an MRI done soon to check on her brain and fluid in some ventricles and to see what the neurosurgeon thinks about it all. The plastic surgeon is pretty sure she’s going to need to have surgery to correct the shape of her skull, in order to give her brain as much room as they can for it to grow. If there is too much fluid, there may be shunts placed. We won’t know what is going to happen until after the MRI and meeting with the neurosurgeon on December 31st. (Happy New Year’s Eve, I guess.) We have a surgery date scheduled for January 12th, just in case. <br />
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We’ve increased Lily’s physical therapy to two times a week and have started the process of getting a customized wheelchair for her. She is not getting the support she needs from the highchair for feeding and being able to interact with us while she’s in it. She’s outgrowing her car seat carrier, and without good trunk and head support, she won’t be able to ride in the stroller comfortably. <br />
We will continue to work on getting her sitting and mobile, but this is the best option for her and us at this time. If she does walk, she’ll be the cutest little girl walking around. If she never walks? She’ll be the cutest little girl in a wheelchair. Win win, right?<br />
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It has been discovered that she’s gotten bored with bananas, so we’re branching out. Current favorite food- mangoes. At our follow up with the GI doctor two weeks ago, we found out she has gained about two pounds and 4 centimeters in the past two months. She's on the low end, but she’s on the chart!<br />
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Seizures are still happening- she’s had a few since our last update. Now that I’ve done a little research, I know that they are <a href="http://www.epilepsy.com/learn/types-seizures/tonic-seizures" target="_blank">tonic seizures</a>, and though scary when it’s happening, she’s fine when they’re done.<br />
<a href="http://mommiesofmiracles.com/living-life-with-a-child-who-has-epilepsy/" target="_blank">This post</a> was written by another mom of a child who has seizures. It's definitely how I feel about it all. <br />
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We had a little party for Lily on Sunday afternoon. Nothing fancy, just a time for friends to play at the playground and have a cupcake (or two). <br />
After a nap, Lily had a great time! Each time someone came up to tell her Happy Birthday, she smiled and got excited. She doesn't mind being the center of attention! She also loves to be outside, so she was quite pleased.<br />
We're not quite ready for Lily to be eating cupcakes yet, but she did have a little taste of the frosting....and what kid doesn't love frosting?<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-22217595325770906262014-11-23T13:50:00.000-05:002014-11-23T13:50:56.686-05:00Happy First Birthday!At 1:37 pm on November 23, 2013, Lily was dead.<br />At 1:37 pm on November 23, 2014, Lily is alive!<br /><br />This year has been heart wrenching and beautiful. It has been pretty much exactly the opposite of what we expected it to be on November 22nd last year, yet a complete blessing, after what happened on the 23rd. <br /><br />We’ve learned a lot of medical terms, met a lot of doctors, learned a lot about ourselves, our children, and our family as a whole. <br /><br />We have been blessed with meals, childcare, house cleaning, Christmas presents, money, time, and prayers. We are so thankful for all of you who have cared for us, the other kids, and Lily.<br /><br />We don’t know how many days, weeks, months, or years Lily will have with us. We know that every day we have with her is a blessing, and that her worth is not dependent on what she can or cannot do.<br /><br />Many thanks again to the doctors and nurses that saved Lily’s life last year, and those that continue to care for her.<br /><br />Though we were warned that she would be basically vegetative…she is anything but. This little girl has strong opinions, the best smile, tries hard, and loves loves loves. <br /><br />Happy Birthday, sweet baby! We love you so much it feels like our hearts might burst!<br /><br />St. Lillian, St. Faustina, Our Lady of Loreto, and her Holy Angel, pray for her!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-42246213588678483372014-10-27T19:43:00.001-04:002014-10-27T19:43:50.106-04:00CT Scan, take 2Thank you all for praying for Lily this week, with special intercession from St. Jude.<br />
We met with the neurologist on Friday and he said we can up her dose one more time, if she has another seizure (she had one on Wednesday). We're also looking into some alternative medications, since the other two prescription medications he suggested have pretty depressing potential side effects. <br />
We did find out that Lily has gained about 11 ounces this past week, and is now over 15 pounds! Her head circumference has also grown about a half an inch. We are very happy about this!<br />
She has had a renewed interest in food the past two weeks and her speech therapist said Lily is doing a very good job. Lily also rolled over again, though she was unhappy once she got to her tummy. Little inch-stones, making progress.<br />
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Tomorrow morning Lily will be having another CT Scan, to check on her skull bones. She will most likely have to be lightly sedated for this, which means no food 4 hours before hand. That could mean a grumpy Baby and frazzled Mom. Your prayers are appreciated (it's at 11 am).<br />
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Happy Feast of Sts. Simon and Jude tomorrow!<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-59227217182427556782014-10-19T13:39:00.001-04:002014-10-19T14:01:26.756-04:00Seizures and St. JudeThis month Lily has started having two different kinds of seizures, along with the little jerky ones she has everyday. One of them has her leg muscles tighten and her feet turn into each other. It happens quickly and in a cluster of 4 or 5 times, usually after she wakes up. It has only seemed to bothered her once so far. The other type is a lot more disconcerting, as she goes blank and rigid, and either holds her breath or can't breath, for about 15-20 seconds. This has happened three times so far, again, not long after she wakes up from a nap. A trip to the ER and a call into her neurologist, and her anti-seizure medicine has been upped again. When we brought her home, she was on .51 mL, now she's up to 2.7 mL. There is going to be talk about adding/switching medicine when we meet with the neurologist next Friday. <br />
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So- today starts a novena to St. Jude, patron of Hopeless Causes and Desperate Situations. Would you join us in praying and asking for Lily's seizures to stop? All the prayers can be found <a href="http://www.praymorenovenas.com/st-jude-novena/" target="_blank">here</a>, and you can sign up for reminder emails.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-64138909826789564502014-10-02T16:43:00.000-04:002014-10-02T16:44:08.049-04:00Prayer RequestFor the past couple of weeks, Lily has been having really intense gas that causes her to cry for anywhere from a half hour to an hour and a half at a time. Often this occurs in the evening when we are already exhausted from the day. We've tried every kind of technique to relieve her discomfort, but all to no avail. Eventually she becomes so exhausted herself from crying for an hour straight that she falls asleep. Sometimes we are able to get her to burp and that will make her feel better, but again, it usually doesn't happen for a good amount of time.<br />
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Lily has also not been sleeping well on her own. She will sleep in Laura's lap sometimes for a half hour to forty-five minutes, but this means Laura is unable to do other things during that time. When Lily is laid down when she is sleeping, only five minutes later and she will wake up. To make matters worse, she is not yet able to sit up on her own or crawl around and doesn't like to lay on her back all the time, and only occasionally will she sit in a baby chair without getting upset. This means she has to be held constantly when she is awake--and she is <i>always</i> awake during the day.<br />
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As you can imagine, this is very stressful and overwhelming for Laura when I am not around to help due to work, class, or working on my dissertation.<br />
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So we are asking for you to please pray that Lily will sleep better and longer on her own, that her gas problems go away, and for strength and perseverance for Laura and that she does not feel overwhelmed every day.<br />
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Thank you.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00570196313847615587noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5796051701155539341.post-40156072017626161342014-09-15T20:23:00.001-04:002014-09-15T20:23:28.138-04:00Summer UpdateOur main excitement: Three weeks ago, Lily got a fever and was vomiting. Though her fever had
been low, it spiked the second night and she woke up at midnight and
started having a febrile seizure. It was terrible. We called 911 and the EMTs were able to stop the
seizure in the ambulance 20 minutes later. She arrived at the hospital
wet from being doused with water and surrounded by ice packs trying to
get her 103.8 fever down. Tests were run and she had a bad urinary tract
infection. After being poked six or seven times trying to get an IV in her
little dehydrated veins, the nurses gave up and gave her a shot of
antibiotics. They were finally able to get the IV in the next afternoon
on the first try, though she had still been vomiting throughout the day.
More antibiotics, anti-vomit meds, and lots of snuggles, and we were
coming home with a much happier Lily after two and a half days in the
hospital. She seems all better now and we'll just have to be extra
careful to keep fevers down and if there is any more vomiting, we'll be
going in for tests and an IV before things get out of control. <br />
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<br />After looking closely at Lily's 8 hour EEG, the neurologist determined that she <i>is</i> actually having seizures (small ones between 10-15 seconds). We upped her medicine pretty quickly and the seizures seemed to get worse- they bothered her more than they had previously. She's been on the higher dose for over a month now, and while she's still having seizures (between 2-3 seconds), they're back to not bothering her. We meet with the neurologist in a week and will probably be increasing her dose again. We'll just do it a little slower than before. If we can't get them under control we'll have to switch medicine. The good news is that apparently the seizures aren't causing any new damage, but are just a result of the injury. <br /><br />Lily was measured for a helmet but then her measurements were just a little too good and it was denied. She was remeasured (just to make sure) and we haven't heard back yet. It feels like the ridge is getting a little flatter, but maybe we're just imagining it.<br />Her head circumference is pretty small and hadn't grown any at her last checkup a few weeks ago. This isn't surprising, again a result of her injury. <br /><br />Physical therapy is going well when Lily is in the mood for it. She's getting better head control turning from side to side, though she still turns really quickly, or gets tired and her head gets droopy. She has a hard time keeping it mid-line. She still doesn't like to be on her belly, but is able to lift her head up well through the fussing. Lily can prop sit for a few seconds and is getting better about putting weight on her arms, but it will still be a while before she is actually sitting. She isn't very strong in her trunk, so it makes balancing difficult. <br /><br />We had started puréed food with her and she seemed to really like it, taking little tastes. She was able to eat 5-7 teaspoons throughout the day, but recently has been much less interested in eating from the spoon. I don't know if I'm just timing it wrong or if it's a sign of things to come. She is still nursing well. However, she isn't gaining as much weight as the doctors would like (she was just under 13 lbs at her 9 month check up). She is getting longer though, and looks proportional, not real skinny.<br />
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<br />One of the biggest problems right now is that she isn't napping well. She will sleep for a half hour if you hold her or 10-15 minutes if you try to put her down. Every once in a while she'll have a good long nap, but it's few and far between. This is exhausting for us and for her- she's just not getting the sleep she needs. She does okay during the night about half the time. It's just tiring and frustrating. <br /><br />She was fitted for her hearing aids 3 weeks ago (just before ending up at the hospital), and there is some confusion as to whether she will need to have another sedated hearing test (at a hospital over an hour and a half away) or not. Each audiologist feels a different way about it and doesn't trust the ability or opinion of the other. We're stuck in the middle of it and can't get anything done- I can't believe it is this difficult. Throw in needing prescriptions from the pediatrician and a new ENT over an hour away that we'd have to see and...who knows what will actually get done.<br /><br />Even though Lily is getting closer to a year old, in lots of ways she's still sort of like a 3 month old in her physical abilities and she still looks much younger than she is.<br />
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<br />At home, she loves the vacuum and the ice dispenser. At Mass, she loves the loud organ and everyone singing- she likes to join in! She thinks we make funny faces and sounds and Danny got her to laugh when he blew on her belly. She usually just gives a smile and a little "heh!" Sometimes her shoulders go up when she does it- it's pretty funny. <br /><br /><br />
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